mostly i'm curious about what happens to 'your brain' (try 'your soul') without media- please let us know-
but about fashion body image- from the point of view of someone who fits it (young, underweight, nice bones)
obviously it sucks not to be thin and attractive. at the same time, anyone who doesn't fit the ideal, yet gets so caught up in it as to become unhappy, is obviously insecure and off-balance. the point of ideals is that MOST people don't fit them, and, even without being tall/thin/fine-boned, there are ways to be beautiful
and that's where the real femininity comes in- the art of becoming beautiful through individuality, rather than relying on your face.
the real reason the fashion ideal is freakishly tall and dangerously thin is that a large number of designers are gay, and gay men like boys. naturally, even when designing for women, they pick the bodies closest to what they like. it follows that the fashion ideal is a masculinized body, with wide shoulders, no hips, lines instead of curves, and totally useless from the point of view of reproducing (hips that narrow aren't good for popping out babies). models are lovely anomalies.
[not to be sexist, men are designed for heavy lifting]
but fashion likes the ideal.
i like the ideal.
and i don't design for curvy women; once, one of my models couldn't fit into a dress i had made (child-bearing hips). i was awfully tempted to fire her, but because she was my best friend i added fabric.
the coat-hanger bodytype is also easiest to sew for because of the way things hang off the shoulders, you don't need to take the hips into account.
such are my thoughts...