In reply to beanlo:
hi,
I was lucky and knew someone who very kindly told Nicks office about me. (Please feel free to send my office a CV.) I think the most important thing I learnt, among so so many other things, is to follow your heart. Nicks courage made it clear to me that this can be possible. Try not to play everyones game but try to come up with your own set of rules,it doesnt matter if this is estetically or how your everyday life is run. What do you really LOVE?
Then do it!